Do you suspect that your wife is cheating on you? If you do, you are definitely not alone. Infidelity is actually quite common these days. You can see it all over television and almost everyone has known someone who has been cheated on, in one way or another.

If you are a husband who thinks that your wife is cheating on you, there are a number of signs that you will want to be on the lookout for. The following are four signs that could very well confirm your suspicions.

1 – A Change in Appearance

If your wife has gone through a change in appearance, it could be a sign that she is cheating on you. What you will want to look for is small, but significant changes in appearance.

For example, has she always worn glasses but has all of a sudden opted for contact lenses? Has your wife recently started showing more skin? Dressing provocatively is a common sign of cheating, especially if your wife typically dresses conservatively. Switching perfumes or wearing it more often can be another sign of cheating. This can be done to impress a new man or to cover up another man’s scent.

2 – A Change in Affection

A change in the amount of affection that your wife gives you could be seen as a sign of having an affair. For example, has your love life been happy and healthy in the past? Was your relationship filled with fun, adventure, and great sex? If so, has that changed? If your wife no longer compliments you as she did before or does something as simple as pull away during a kiss, an affair may be going on. Many cheating women try to avoid close contact with their husbands in fear of getting caught or letting their guilt show.

3 – Secrecy

A wife becoming more secretive can often point to an extramarital affair. For example, does your wife spend too much time on the phone or the internet? If so, what does she say when you ask her what she is doing? If you receive a “nothing,” or a “not your business,” response, something may be going on.

In keeping with phone and internet use, does your wife automatically hang-up the phone whenever you walk into a room? Does she shut off the computer or try to block your view of it? If so, your wife’s secrecy may mean that she is trying to cover up an affair.

4 – Changes in Bills

One of the simplest ways to catch a cheating wife is to start paying your bills. In most relationships, this is the woman’s responsibility, but make it yours. Examine your wife’s cell phone bills. Does it show what phone numbers are called or what numbers text messages and pictures are received from? Also, closely examine credit card bills. Are there expenses listed for hotel rooms, vacations, restaurants, or anything else that you have no idea about? If so, your wife may be cheating on you.

The above mentioned signs are just a few of the many that you will want to look for in a cheating wife. If you think that your wife is cheating on you, just be sure to keep your eyes and ears open. Unfortunately for the cheaters, they often make mistakes. Many women get so comfortable, that they slip up at one time or another. If you know what to look for, this is when you may be able to catch your wife cheating.

If you do find out that your wife is cheating on you, you may want to carefully approach the subject. Never confront your wife in front of your children. No matter how angry you are, do not get violent and try to keep your voice at a reasonable level. As hard as it can be, calming approaching the situation can better allow you and your wife to have an honest discussion. This where you can decide what will happen you to and your relationship next.

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Quite often a man has no idea that his wife is cheating on him until he accidentally discovers some clue that something else is happening in the relationship. Usually though men do have some suspicions that the women are having affairs through their words and actions and then look for ways of how to catch a cheating wife. Some of the common signs that your wife many be cheating on you include:

- You find birth control pills and you have has a vasectomy

- You find that she has a different email address

- She spends more time shopping than she ever did but doesn’t buy anything

- She has a different cell phone account

- You have unexplained numbers appearing on your home phone

- She suddenly starts dressing sexier

- She doesn’t want to have too many conversations with you

- She makes excuses not to go out with you

- She stops wearing her wedding ring

In order to catch your wife cheating, you have to employ tactics used by private investigators. You could hire a private investigator to get the pictures of your wife with someone else or you can do some sleuthing on your own. You will undoubtedly start monitoring her activities and do some checking up on her. For example, if she tells you she is going shopping with a friend, you can come up with an excuse to call her friend house to find out if this is true.  If she says she has to work late, and this is not a usual occurrence, you can call her place of work to see if she is really there. Keep in mind you will need a legitimate excuse for these calls because if your suspicions are unfounded, then the fact that you don’t trust her could harm your marriage.

You can spy on her online activities with software that you install on your home computer.  You have a password for the software and your wife will never even know that it has been installed. You will be able to find out what websites she visits and her email password so that you can check on her messages.

If you suspect that she is using the car to travel to hotels to meet with someone, you can take a check of the mileage on the car. Pay particular note to the credit card statement to see if she has been buying gifts for someone else. One telltale sign is if she comes home with a smell of aftershave on her clothing and it is not your scent.

If you have strong suspicions that your wife is cheating on you, then you should resort to following her when she goes out. This will lead you to the answers you seek, but you have to be subtle about it. If she catches on she may change her plans, but if she doesn’t confront you about it, then you can feel reasonably sure that she is having an affair.

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The renowned singer Connie Francis once sang “Lipstick on your collar told a tale on you.” The song maybe dated but the sentiment remains. Catching a cheating spouse in many ways still comes down to the same warning signs that have been around since time immemorial.

In addition to lipstick on the collar, a sign of a cheating spouse includes unexplained (or badly explained) changes in their personal appearance, the classic working late but not really, unaccounted for charges on the credit card as well as a noticeable distance and secretiveness beginning to dominate the relationship.

There are a multitude of signs to be on guard for if you have suspicions your spouse is cheating. Unfortunately in this day and age, two things which have become an integral part of our lives are also major obstacles when it comes to discovering marital infidelity.

1. The Internet

They do not call it the information highway for nothing. The ability to instantaneously connect with someone from around the globe is a technological marvel. It’s also an avenue for temptation. It has become all too easy to meet people who have no compunction about hooking up for some offline romance. The almost unlimited supply of potential partners has made the internet THE place to cheat.

Online cheating allows someone to remain anonymous while also affordsing them the capacity to cover their tracks. This takes on a more heightened effectiveness if the unfaithful spouse tends to be more computer savvy than their significant other. They could literally be carrying on an affair while sitting in the same room as their partner.

Even if the person tells themselves they would never cross the line by actually meeting their online companion, it still comes down to taking away emotionally from the relationship they are currently in. Besides that, curiosity is a powerful motivator. If two parties are really hitting it off well in cyberspace then somewhere down the line the pull to meet the other person maybe a little too strong to ignore.

2. The Mobile

In the old days frequent calls at inappropriate moments or just picking up a telephone extension could tell you all you needed to know about whether a spouse was cheating. And now? Not so much. The cell phone has been a gift to many an unfaithful partner.

Besides the obvious benefit of being able to take all calls directly, the cell phone also allows the cheating spouse to keep tabs on their significant other. If for instance both parties decide that an afternoon rendezvous would make their day go better, than a quick call to find out your whereabouts and what’s on your immediate agenda will tell your partner all they need to know. Being able to coordinate the movements of all parties involved after receiving immediate information has in far too many instances taken cheating to a new level.

The tested and proven methods of catching a cheating spouse are always going to be with us. No matter how much precaution someone goes through to keep their extramarital affair hidden, they are still human and subject to making mistakes. But the reality is the internet along with mobile phones has made the job of catching a cheating spouse a whole lot tougher.