What does it mean when I have a dream every night about my boyfriend cheating on me?
May 17th, 2009
KC asked:
Every night for the past week I’ve been having a dream (or nightmare rather) where my boyfriend has been cheating on me with different girls. I know there are some books that explain why your having certain dreams, like it’s some pshycological thing. And I was just wondering if anyone knew what it meant or if anyone had a book that told what it meant. I know my dream is not trying to tell me something, or hint anything to me, because I dont believe in that witch craft, voodoo, or mythological sorta stuff. I just heard it is pshycological.
Trust issue you are having with him.
Maybe your subconscious mind is worried that he may cheat and leave you. Or maybe you attracted to someone else and you are the one that is thinking about cheating and this is why that you are dreaming this. Or maybe it is just a random dream.
it is happening and you are ignoring the signs in your waking life because u dont want to face the truth….cuz it hurts too much
unless you have hard evidence or a gut feeling you are probably blaming him for something else he has done.
i think you are obsessed with this idea and its going right to the part of the brain that won’t shut down for time of sleep.
have a heart to heart talk with your guy..and check for tell tale signs of lying..you know..but don’t lower the boom unless you have hard evidence..like on TV..the cheaters?
What it most likely means is that you are unsure of yourself. You are projecting your fears onto your relationship. You must regain confidence in yourself, and your ability to manage a relationship. You started this relationship, so cruise with it. If he’s cheating, it may just mean that he hasn’t made up his mind yet, and it’s better he gets over that before marriage, when it’s cheaper, at least!
Incidentally, witchcraft is a lifestyle, not a religion. Read “Positive Magic” by Marion Weinstein.
It means that you are insecure. You don’t have enough confidence in yourself. You don’t think you’re good enough for him to really care about you. So therefore you don’t trust in him enough to believe his feelings for you are sincere.
it really depends on how the dream makes you feel. during the dream are you nervous or scared, or confident that this could never happen? did you have a bad feeling you were going to find him cheating? from what you put here, it sounds to me that you are scared your bf is going to cheat on you. i don’t know if this is a rational fear, that depends on his history and your trust in him.
It probably means that the topic of your boyfriend cheating is on your mind, and you might say that you have thought about it once or twice, butyour mind is coming up with diffrent scinerios when you sleep.Casuing you to have nightmares about one topic that you’ve only thought about once or twice.
check out “cheating in dreams’ at