Comments on: cheating husband?

By: Russian Girls

Russian Girls — Thu, 30 Apr 2009 00:04:45 +0000

I would try and work on it with your husband. Maybe there are some things the both of you can work on to fix the marriage.

By: Life of Adventure

Life of Adventure — Tue, 28 Apr 2009 21:06:49 +0000

Dont give empty threats..he’ll see right through them. You need to sit down and talk to him without yelling, threatening and see what really is going on and what you both might want to do for the kids sake. If he hasnt cheated you will drive him to it, believe me I’ve seen it happen. You also need to stop bringing his family into it they are always going to choose him, he’s blood not you.

For the kids sake dont make it a war make it a peace talk. I hate parents that fight in front of their kids, its ok to argue in front but not a full on war.

By: Unfaithful Wife

Unfaithful Wife — Sun, 26 Apr 2009 23:40:31 +0000

I’d be so angry!! What’s wrong with him? He hasn’t cheated, but who can guarantee he won’t? i think it’s just a matter of time until he does.. i mean, what is his excuse? what’s with those emails? What did he have to say for himself?

Value this things & make a decision, only you can do it. i would tell you not to get an abortion but you already said you are uncapable of this. Take Good care of you & have respect for yourself, Don’t stay with a man who dis-respected you & your family (because that’s what cheating is)whatever you do DON’T just stay together for the kids… trust me, your children will suffer more if you stay together only for them.

God Bless

By: Life Bitten

Life Bitten — Thu, 23 Apr 2009 21:22:12 +0000

Insist on some marriage counseling…NOW, before it gets worse. If he won’t go, go by yourself. Sorry you’re going through this. Love your children, born and unborn, it’s not their fault.

By: Cheating Girlfriends

Cheating Girlfriends — Tue, 21 Apr 2009 15:41:29 +0000

God gave you that baby for a reason. Unfortunately there are a lot of women out there that are raising children without their fathers or the fathers are in their lives a little bit. Every woman is strong and if you feel that your relationship cannot get through this then it’s time to get out there on your own. If his family is defending him, who is on your side? Is your family helping you? You’ll need someone to confide in and help you through this. It wont be easy but if he is cheating OR planning on cheating you deserve better than that. Remember, that baby is a blessing.

By: Money Making Systems

Money Making Systems — Mon, 20 Apr 2009 08:46:49 +0000

Megan, I don’t see why your baby has to suffer the consequences, Why have an abortion? I say you should have the baby… You gave another chance to this man.. you did everything you could and now you know it won’t work with this guy. If I was you, i would have my baby, get divorced and fight in court as much as i can to be freed from that cheating husband.. Just my opinion… Best of luck!

By: The Love Scout

The Love Scout — Sat, 18 Apr 2009 01:25:15 +0000

Too bad Texas doesn’t have laws against husbands cheating on their wives (especially pregnant ones!) Some heavy fines or imprisonment will do those cheaters nicely. Come to New York where any woman can give the boot to a no-good husband who dunks his doughnut with some frankenfish. Yes, you could choose an abortion, and I believe it’s your body and you should decide what’s best for YOU now.
I disagree with staying in a relationship just for the kids. MY parents tried staying together for us, but all they did was argue and it was just miserable at home. Don’t put a child through an unhappy home – that is often the worst. I would have understood if my mother had wanted to abort me because she’s gotta do what’s best for her even if it means an abortion. Nobody has a right to judge you.

By: How to get rid of Man Boobs

How to get rid of Man Boobs — Fri, 17 Apr 2009 13:58:20 +0000

Hi Megan –

I’m sorry you’re going through this. I’m curious, though, how did you come to find these e-mails? Were you already suspicious and so looked there? Did he leave it open and maybe *want* to be caught? In either case, it doesn’t sound like he’s the best husband and father, flirting with other women while his wife is pregnant.

As for advice, I’m not sure what to suggest but maybe that might help you find a jumping-off point for figuring out the state of your relationship. Most of all, though, take care of yourself and your baby.

By: How to get rid of Man Boobs

How to get rid of Man Boobs — Tue, 14 Apr 2009 08:16:10 +0000

Well, first off, have yourself tested for any STD’s if you have not done so already. Your child’s safety is at risk if your spouse is or has had relations with another person. Second off, I would make an attempt to get him into marriage counseling with you to find out the source of his feelings and why he is acting out like this. Third off, if there is any abuse already in the relationship, you need to leave because domestic violence not only harms you, it harms your children and unborn baby. If you are having feelings about going through with an abortion just to spite your husband, I suggest you talk to a counselor yourself to deal with these feelings even though you say you couldn’t go through with it, you need to address the feelings that made you say that. Remember that you and your children are precious, work on the marriage, but do not be a doormat and do not take what his family has to say to heart. You are in charge of your opinions and you do not need them to defend him to you.

By: Russian Girls

Russian Girls — Mon, 13 Apr 2009 01:07:39 +0000

what??? I live in texas and have never heard of that???
well, I would suggest marriage counseling, there is a problem and needs to be fixed, or at least try and attept to fix it.
Good Luck