what kind of excuses did your cheating husband tell you to justify his actions?
September 15th, 2009
~testube Jebus~ asked:
was it because he was starved for affection at home or she was just something new and differnt? was it because of x or y? mine was because she was showering him with Gifts and Money and showing him constant affection that only a new relationship can bring. she actually considered him HER BOYFRIEND! she knew he was married because she works with us? so…what kind of slimy worm excuses did your cheating husband tell you to justify his actions in his own mind?
my ex said it was the other women fault he had affair as she used to make sexual remarks and this lead to meeting an action and if i realized how hard it was for males and could make him feel as good as her we e fine lol men he just a rat and i glad to say he my EX
I am pretty sure my ex cheated because he is a loser with the outlook of a 8 year old he was always selfish with a huge ego to boot. He says he cheated because she was there and came on to him. Best thing i ever did was to move on it’s just not worth it whatever the reason does it even matter? leave him settles the whole thing quickly.
I Haven’t went thru this and every excuse is not good enough . i would pack up and leave.
hahahahaha……….MY ex thought it was OK for him to cheat bc….well, he thought he didn’t have to live by everyone else’s rules. He still doesn’t.
It’s cause the other girl, actually wants to be with us.. you can see it in thier eyes…. all we see in your eyes, get out of my face and do the dishes… so what do you expect?
He told me he did not do it everyone was lying.But there was too much evidence.The way i see it once a cheater always a cheater they just get smarter with it.
I was to selfish everything was about me,me,me his words exactly after 18 years of giving into him all the nights of sex and all the home cooked meals all the hugs and kisses all wasted on a man that didn’t deserve me.
he blamed it on fighting, on that i did not love him, that he felt he had wasted 10 yrs, that he didn’t even like me,he was depressed, bored, unhappy,that he needed a vacation.also i was accused of cheating, but it was him that cheated.
I’m a very loving person, especially in bed. I’d totally love it if my husband and I would have sex every minute of every day. Why would he go have an affair then? I don’t know but he does. He has at least two “girlfriends” that I know about. His exuse is when hes texting them at home is that they are just friends nothing more. He won’t admit to them, but he works with both of them. What do I do?
He was so arrogant, he didn’t think he needed an excuse. When I confronted him, he beat the crap out of me.
He’s my ex now.
how much time do we have?
my ex husband said it was also b/c she showered him w/ gifts even though he could afford all his own luxuries. Some me are great boyfriends but, terrible husbands.
My husband did not justify it. He told me that he should not have cheated and made no excuses about it.
first of all Tom LG u suck… and the other woman cannot remain happy with you forever cuz you don’t know how to stay in arelationship.
well my ex was insecure.. he hated the everyone praised my work and called him a loafer( we worked together)… so he went and cheated with a pea brain where he felt more comfortable…oh and he took time to make me dump him ..in this time he kept telling me that i was actually not a good worker and everyone just hates him cuz he is soooooooo good.well my girl friends made fun of it for several nights to cheer me up and i was fine in a month.