Comments on: How do you get over a cheating husband? http://www.cheatinggirlfriends.net/marriage-divorce/how-do-you-get-over-a-cheating-husband/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=how-do-you-get-over-a-cheating-husband Is your girlfriend cheating? Thu, 03 Jun 2010 02:00:16 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: CM Burns http://www.cheatinggirlfriends.net/marriage-divorce/how-do-you-get-over-a-cheating-husband/comment-page-1/#comment-160 CM Burns Fri, 02 Oct 2009 17:55:11 +0000 http://www.cheatinggirlfriends.net/marriage-divorce/how-do-you-get-over-a-cheating-husband/#comment-160 The git definitely deserves to die all alone. No cosy wifey-wife, no hot mistress. Everyone should just ditch him! Let him burn in hell of his own misery. But the thing is, he's gonna find (a) fresh victim(s) sooner or later... The git definitely deserves to die all alone. No cosy wifey-wife, no hot mistress. Everyone should just ditch him! Let him burn in hell of his own misery. But the thing is, he’s gonna find (a) fresh victim(s) sooner or later…

]]> By: Make quick money online http://www.cheatinggirlfriends.net/marriage-divorce/how-do-you-get-over-a-cheating-husband/comment-page-1/#comment-159 Make quick money online Thu, 01 Oct 2009 04:57:23 +0000 http://www.cheatinggirlfriends.net/marriage-divorce/how-do-you-get-over-a-cheating-husband/#comment-159 It needs a great dose of love and forgiveness to give your husband a second chance; if you're not sure his love for you is strong and lasting, it's not worth even trying to fix your marriage 'cause the image of the two together along with more and more doubts concerning his whereabouts are going to haunt you. Do you really want to spend your life wondering if he's really at the grocery store or hanging out with another woman ? Trust is fundamental in a relationship, but he destroyed it by cheating on you. Then, honey, it's up to you : can you live with that ? I couldn't go on living with my husband in such a predicament. I am very sorry for the way you must be feeling; time will heal, in a way or another. It needs a great dose of love and forgiveness to give your husband a second chance; if you’re not sure his love for you is strong and lasting, it’s not worth even trying to fix your marriage ’cause the image of the two together along with more and more doubts concerning his whereabouts are going to haunt you. Do you really want to spend your life wondering if he’s really at the grocery store or hanging out with another woman ? Trust is fundamental in a relationship, but he destroyed it by cheating on you. Then, honey, it’s up to you : can you live with that ? I couldn’t go on living with my husband in such a predicament. I am very sorry for the way you must be feeling; time will heal, in a way or another.

]]> By: Russian Girls http://www.cheatinggirlfriends.net/marriage-divorce/how-do-you-get-over-a-cheating-husband/comment-page-1/#comment-158 Russian Girls Wed, 30 Sep 2009 06:17:52 +0000 http://www.cheatinggirlfriends.net/marriage-divorce/how-do-you-get-over-a-cheating-husband/#comment-158 Let him go, once a cheater, always a cheater. Let him go, once a cheater, always a cheater.

]]> By: The Love Scout http://www.cheatinggirlfriends.net/marriage-divorce/how-do-you-get-over-a-cheating-husband/comment-page-1/#comment-157 The Love Scout Tue, 29 Sep 2009 09:18:12 +0000 http://www.cheatinggirlfriends.net/marriage-divorce/how-do-you-get-over-a-cheating-husband/#comment-157 There is no worse feeling in the world than jealousy and not being able to trust your man. If this marriage is going to work out at all, then he has to prove to you that he is trustworthy and he has to work really hard to regain your trust. He must not ever see this other woman again, no excuses, never, for the marriage to work out. You might be able to trust him again if enough time passes and if he is remorseful enough, and I mean truly remorseful, for the rest of his life. If he is not sorry, then dump him or you will have a lifetime of horrible feelings ahead of you..... There is no worse feeling in the world than jealousy and not being able to trust your man. If this marriage is going to work out at all, then he has to prove to you that he is trustworthy and he has to work really hard to regain your trust. He must not ever see this other woman again, no excuses, never, for the marriage to work out. You might be able to trust him again if enough time passes and if he is remorseful enough, and I mean truly remorseful, for the rest of his life. If he is not sorry, then dump him or you will have a lifetime of horrible feelings ahead of you…..

]]> By: Adult Vacations http://www.cheatinggirlfriends.net/marriage-divorce/how-do-you-get-over-a-cheating-husband/comment-page-1/#comment-156 Adult Vacations Sun, 27 Sep 2009 15:50:03 +0000 http://www.cheatinggirlfriends.net/marriage-divorce/how-do-you-get-over-a-cheating-husband/#comment-156 being as though you are willing to give him another chance shows that you want your marriage. for both of you to have a healthy marriage its going to require a lot of hard work from both of you and forgivess (from you) to move on. If you haven't done so truly forgive him for what he did, dont keep bringing it up in arguments or conversations but honestly accept and deal with your feelings about what happened and forgive him. yes its easier said than done but this is part of the process if you want to salvage the marriage. on his part he has a lot of work to do as well... he is going to have to build his trust back up with you. this means checking in with you, being open about where he is and who he is with etc...not hiding things that he is doing...making you feel as comfortable as possible during this time.. i'm not sure if you have been to counseling yet but definately go for yourself to help deal with the situation..also go together if he is willing to go.. being as though you are willing to give him another chance shows that you want your marriage. for both of you to have a healthy marriage its going to require a lot of hard work from both of you and forgivess (from you) to move on.

If you haven’t done so truly forgive him for what he did, dont keep bringing it up in arguments or conversations but honestly accept and deal with your feelings about what happened and forgive him. yes its easier said than done but this is part of the process if you want to salvage the marriage.

on his part he has a lot of work to do as well… he is going to have to build his trust back up with you. this means checking in with you, being open about where he is and who he is with etc…not hiding things that he is doing…making you feel as comfortable as possible during this time..

i’m not sure if you have been to counseling yet but definately go for yourself to help deal with the situation..also go together if he is willing to go..

]]> By: Man Boobs http://www.cheatinggirlfriends.net/marriage-divorce/how-do-you-get-over-a-cheating-husband/comment-page-1/#comment-155 Man Boobs Thu, 24 Sep 2009 20:38:41 +0000 http://www.cheatinggirlfriends.net/marriage-divorce/how-do-you-get-over-a-cheating-husband/#comment-155 I would not stay with a man that had been cheating since before we got married. Your marriage is a lie. How can you look at him. I would be getting rid of him. This man lied to you on your wedding day. I would not stay with a man that had been cheating since before we got married. Your marriage is a lie. How can you look at him. I would be getting rid of him. This man lied to you on your wedding day.

]]> By: Subic Scuba http://www.cheatinggirlfriends.net/marriage-divorce/how-do-you-get-over-a-cheating-husband/comment-page-1/#comment-154 Subic Scuba Tue, 22 Sep 2009 16:21:39 +0000 http://www.cheatinggirlfriends.net/marriage-divorce/how-do-you-get-over-a-cheating-husband/#comment-154 You get over it by taking back the power. You were cheated on and lied to and betrayed. Now you decide what you want. If you want the marriage to survive, you set the groundrules. He abides by them or leaves. It might also be worth a temporary separation (making him move out) and insisting that he woo you back. If it's not worth it, or if you can see he won't change and you can't live with that, just divorce him and move on. It's hard and painful and you have to do a lot of pretending, but the fact is, he is not worth your love and one day you will wake up and realise that you don't actually give a c**p what happens to him, you're just happy to be who you are. That day is worth struggling towards with all your courage and will power! You get over it by taking back the power. You were cheated on and lied to and betrayed. Now you decide what you want. If you want the marriage to survive, you set the groundrules. He abides by them or leaves. It might also be worth a temporary separation (making him move out) and insisting that he woo you back.

If it’s not worth it, or if you can see he won’t change and you can’t live with that, just divorce him and move on. It’s hard and painful and you have to do a lot of pretending, but the fact is, he is not worth your love and one day you will wake up and realise that you don’t actually give a c**p what happens to him, you’re just happy to be who you are. That day is worth struggling towards with all your courage and will power!

]]> By: Man Boobs http://www.cheatinggirlfriends.net/marriage-divorce/how-do-you-get-over-a-cheating-husband/comment-page-1/#comment-153 Man Boobs Mon, 21 Sep 2009 11:21:58 +0000 http://www.cheatinggirlfriends.net/marriage-divorce/how-do-you-get-over-a-cheating-husband/#comment-153 wow, since you were dating?! leave him. splash water in his face, burn his clothes, punch him in the nads, and leave wow, since you were dating?! leave him. splash water in his face, burn his clothes, punch him in the nads, and leave

]]> By: Make quick money online http://www.cheatinggirlfriends.net/marriage-divorce/how-do-you-get-over-a-cheating-husband/comment-page-1/#comment-152 Make quick money online Sat, 19 Sep 2009 17:35:53 +0000 http://www.cheatinggirlfriends.net/marriage-divorce/how-do-you-get-over-a-cheating-husband/#comment-152 Get rid of him. Once someone has cheated, even if you can forgive them, you will never forget it. It will be there haunting your relationship. Once someone has cheated it will always be in your mind "why are they late? Are they cheating again?" Not every offense deserves a second chance. I know I could never get past it. Get rid of him. Once someone has cheated, even if you can forgive them, you will never forget it. It will be there haunting your relationship. Once someone has cheated it will always be in your mind “why are they late? Are they cheating again?” Not every offense deserves a second chance. I know I could never get past it.

]]> By: Life of Adventure http://www.cheatinggirlfriends.net/marriage-divorce/how-do-you-get-over-a-cheating-husband/comment-page-1/#comment-151 Life of Adventure Thu, 17 Sep 2009 10:51:02 +0000 http://www.cheatinggirlfriends.net/marriage-divorce/how-do-you-get-over-a-cheating-husband/#comment-151 Pack up and go, or change the keys while he is gone and leave his bags at the door. You won't get over it-he won't stop cheating and your self respect will suffer more than you know. Pack it in and rebuild your life. Good Luck! Pack up and go, or change the keys while he is gone and leave his bags at the door. You won’t get over it-he won’t stop cheating and your self respect will suffer more than you know. Pack it in and rebuild your life. Good Luck!

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